HOW TO CHOOSE PEACE AND JOY

HOW TO CHOOSE PEACE AND JOY

In a coaching session yesterday I found myself saying to my beloved client “Only when you make feeling good the most important thing in the Universe for you will you step out of this limiting story and into what you know when you are “Awake”. She agreed. A synopsis of the session we had is in the post below this one.

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Your ego is so clever. As soon as things get challenging, it sets about convincing you that you’re the one with the power to change those things. It dangles concepts and tools, like the law of attraction, visualization, affirmations, and action, in front of you and says “ok, here’s what you use to change what you don’t like about what’s happening in your life now.”

And in your humanness, you bite. You go for it. You start working furiously on figuring out what to do and how to change things to your liking. You begin using all the tools at your disposal to recraft reality.

Here’s the problem: when you do that, you’re forgetting all about Source, God, All That Is. You’re forgetting that part of the human experience, is recognizing that there IS a power greater than yourself. But the ego doesn’t want to know about ANYTHING greater than itself. It wants to be top banana and perpetuate the illusion of ultimate control over everything.

Talk about a great way to create suffering! Wow! You try harder and harder using all the things you know to do, and the reality stays the same. And you hurt more and more, and besides that, you begin to feel like a failure. You start saying things like, “I can’t believe with all the things I know to do and do every day, that things are still the same.” Or, “what’s the matter with me that I can’t manifest what I want right now?” All part of the same game of illusion which is the only game your ego knows how to play.

So now, you are not only working hard, but berating yourself for not being a good enough manifestor. And feeling irritated, angry, anxious, sad, maybe even depressed…and certainly, inadequate.

So how do you get around ego’s tangle of beliefs and judgments, and go back to KNOWING that Spirit is the source of all reality--that all good comes from God. That you can rest in knowing that you are supported and loved in every single moment. And that surrender is just a breath away. Yes, surrender. Surrender to what is. And finding your peaceful heart with what is. And trusting that the Universe knows what you want; knows your preferences, and for now, what is, is. And if it is, it’s perfect.

Oh man, does the ego ever NOT go for that! But you MUST. Because your inner peace, your Everyday Joy depends on it--depends on your willingness to release resistance, stop pushing up against, reality. That only causes you to suffer more and more deeply. The truth is you get to choose peace in every moment. You get to claim your Everyday Joy all the time. But in order to do this, you have to practice recognizing what ego is up to; acknowledging that ego is always trying to protect you from imagined harm; creating fear where there is none.

Now understand, there’s no need to horribilize ego. Ego is not bad. Ego is your human mind working within its limitations. When you recognize these things, then you can choose to surrender into the NOW. You can choose to dwell in the expansive knowing of your spirit. Over and over and over and over and over, ad infinitum. It’s what you have to do to finally claim the New World inside of yourself. Then and only then will it manifest outside of you.

Only when you make being at peace, living in joy, feeling good, the most important things in your Universe will you be willing to step outside of ego and into the innate wisdom of your soul. Only then will you allow yourself to know what you know when you are “Awake”.

You are capable of deep peace and radiant joy. Not just capable--- these are your nature. Gently moving ego out of the way is just what you have to do to live there. Keep practicing. It’s SO worth the effort.

Wishing you the peace and joy that are YOU!
Jan Masters
The Everyday Joy Coach
www.EverydayJoy.com